self-confidence 自信

the only way is to think more positively, think of urself as a unique individual then ur more likely to feel confident. also, practice makes perfect, u would be confident in doing sth if u r really good and familiar with it. especially for us graphic designers, its really important to be confident about your skills and your work. lately i ask myself abt this too, but not too sure about it, however working on improving. to me, i just keep telling myself theres no right or wrong in solving a problem, and i have my own way in dealing with it.

p.s. btw, the light yellow/orange + light grey here = not so legible (the one on this comment thing); just a suggestion, but maybe u can make the blk W in the background light grey, that way its not gonna be distracting the blog. i really liked the way when ur preloader (on ur site) finishes loading, it becomes the grey part of the website, however, i thought maybe u could not make it load directly on top of ur logo when it starts. at first i thought if it was too big, but then maybe its not the size, its the overlapping of that and the logo. hope it helps.

p.p.s. i hope u can get rid of the pinkish vivian chow

p.p.p.s. yay i am the 1st 

ok here it goes:

confidence cant be found using a specific method, i guess its just abt the situation u r in or the group of ppl involved, and it varies frm time to time. and i dun think a person would be confident in every aspect, there must be sth that the person is gd/bad at; i think sometimes its more like an illusion, someone might seem to look confident or at least try to pretend to be confident, but its just the way u perceive it, it doesnt necessarily mean he / she is really confident, and u might think "hm... i wanna be like that". or maybe a person is confident but others would think he/she is arrogant because he/ she is not really that gd at that sth only he/she thinks he/she is. I think everyone has diff definition of that, if the way you look or the vibe you give to others matches the defnition of "confidence" in their"dictionary", congratulations, you are very likely to be confident or to be admired at. however, being confident is a gd thing to urself, at least, because u feel gd doing what u think u r gd at; it makes life much easier. but everyone has their moments of feeling "not so confident" so i guess its fair.