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{我沒有用心教學, 只是為學費, 話我用blog 去攻擊家長! } 我在blog 收到一位家長的惡意評論..... 這位家長是誰, 我當然知道!!!! 在加學費的topic中留言. 這兩句話, 我本來真的氣爆了!!!
我以為自己用心, 用精神, 花心血去教小朋友, 應該受到他人的尊重, 但最後被家長這樣評論真的氣死我!
但當我回頭一看這件事. 我看得更多.........更遠.... 我自問問心無愧, 我用心去教小朋友 上課落堂時間有遲無早, 學費有收少無收多, 你小朋友學琴沒有成績嗎? 苦心自問, 我最成功係由學生不識{音符}, 到學會彈琴, 然後台上表演. 小朋友自信心增加不少, 進步了不少!
面對事情, 我不想總是負面, 只是怕自己利益受損, 如果真的氣爆了, 不如心笑一笑, 算吧 !講真句, 清者自清!!!!!


●``愛*自欺++° 2009-08-14 00:27
唔洗理果位家長架...公道自在人心,我support你^_^be the best!!
Vance 2009-08-10 23:36
作為一個路過的人,
真的裊想說句話啊~
開blog者在自己的blog打文章這也有錯?
她抒發自己的情緒, 都容得要別人評論?!
作為鋼琴老師, 難道就沒權加價的嗎?!
而作為家長的, 你是有權選擇, 不過却不是
指著別人加學費價來吵,要是覺得不值得的,
大可找別的老師去學好了啊,
用不著在別人的blog吵吵鬧鬧耶..
學生找到好的老師, 是很難以錢來說的,
說算有時有錢都很難遇到好老師用心去教~
就以我作為一個學生來說, 自己之前都跟過
不同的老師學琴, 不管貴的平的都試過..
但用心去教的, 真是五指可數..
而轉了很久, 才遇上一個用心教的,
雖然見著他的學費不停的加價,
但他的那份用心去教琴,
就足以值得我繼續去學..
有時, 有平的價錢而又找到用心教的老師
當然是好啦, 不過要回想一樣事,
他們都是要糊口飯吃的, 却不可因而
說他們不對的, 他們之所以有今天的成就,
都是靠他們肯花下不少的時間所達到的..
(屬個人意見, 沒任何攻擊人的意思~)
Michelle Wong 2009-08-10 20:12
我兒子學生涯裡,也面對不少壞老師。我自己作為家長認為,一個好老師,除了能夠教音樂知識以外,還要關心學生、了解學生。我兒子有些時候不開心,大發脾氣,老師會抽自己的寶貴時間, 了解我兒子有什麼問題!
我兒子的性格總是有包頂的性格,喜歡不聽從老師說話, 我換了三位鋼琴老師,她只會鼓勵學生, 我兒子十分佩服了她,以後乖乖地聽她堂,練好琴。
世界有很多敬業樂業的老師,肯花時間照顧學生,教好學生,她連午飯時間都肯教好學生。這些老師是值得敬佩的。
sc 2009-08-10 19:44
sc 2009-08-10 19:41
牧羊人講既野都幾值得思想, 如果老師最初肯「讓步」平俾家長, 家長可能真係唔會搞咁多野, 打咁多長篇大論喎. 究竟係老師唔明智, 死唔肯減價, 定係家長大過精明眼呢?
pianolife 2009-08-10 17:35
I am sorry that my chinese typing is very slow. Please allow me to use English. I just read this blog & would like to share some of my opinion.I am also working as a piano teacher(may be my standing point is still lying on the teacher's side) I also really dislike some parents who always compare the tution fee only but neglect what the teachers have done for them. Actually, it's not a compulsory to learn the piano or music, if you don't have enough money, please give up! Always talking about money, it's a kind of polluting music.I think $720 for 45 mins who will be taking an piano exam is reasonable ( Assuming that the teacher is qualified)
Let me share one of my experience, I had a piano student before, she is an arrogant, self-centred student, she always concentrates on exam pieces and competitons only but not the true music lover. Although she can get very high marks in exam & having prices in the competitions, I really don't want to teach this kind of student because I think she just wants to use music & show off herself (Also her mother's attitude is the same, even her mum & her said something that wanted to find the most top piano teacher in HK, but I don't think they have enough money) At last, I used very bad attitude to the student in every lesson in order to let her quit my lesson. I want to say, it's not only student can choose, teachers can also choose.
∮ 靚靚 ♪ ♫ 2009-08-10 17:12
牧羊人 2009-08-10 17:01
其實以上那blog友所說的,都係一句 "錢", 我雖然只係路過,但睇到都覺得好笑, 上面那家長對那老師的批評我不必多評論, 但如果當初老師一早肯"平"比佢,咁今日會吾會又會講咁多所謂道理? 最好笑係吾比俾delete佢個留言, 講真, 無道理既我覺得係那家長吧.
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鋼琴老師2009-08-10 00:47
係la, 人夾人緣la... 好多野講緣份... 坦白講我唔介意學生唔學. 我自己都跟過好多鋼琴老師. 我自己一向都好大方. 唔學. 好好交代一句, 好頭好尾!!! 我成日係音樂會見番鋼琴老師, 大家都仲會問候大家近況! 唔學咪唔學law.... 好平常.... !!! 我最介意係周圍搞搞陣, 不停攻擊我.