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網誌日期:2009-10-19 23:25
每天放工回家, 諾媽就要開始另一份工作---照顧諾諾. 諾媽明白婆婆一整天照顧著活躍的諾諾都頗辛苦, 所以平日都甚少請假自己去街, 即使約好友打波都會邀他們來我們會所打, 之後再到我們家吃飯, 只是每月會一晚跟諾爸在街上吃一頓二人世界飯.
諾媽都盡量早點放工回家, 如時間許可, 諾媽就會帶諾諾到街上逛逛, 有時到諾諾最愛的愉景新城, 有時到麗城, 或在屋苑附近散散步; 有時時間不多, 諾媽都會帶諾諾等諾爸放工. 之後回家洗澡吃飯. 吃飯時間, 雖然諾諾開始坐在自己的餐椅上跟我們一起吃, 可是諾諾暫時還未可以完全照顧自己, 都要諾媽陪伴左右.
到諾諾吃飽要離開其餐椅時, 諾媽才可安心吃飯. 諾媽吃飽了, 又跟兩表兄弟繼續玩, 看看書, 玩玩具, 十一點就要諾諾上床準備睡覺, 擾攘個多小時, 到十二點多諾諾睡了, 諾媽才算完成整天的工作.


諾諾吃芝麻糊, 吃到變成了鬍鬚佬 ......
自從諾諾出世, 除了上班, 諾媽的大部分時間都給諾諾佔據了. 諾媽的自由活動時間少了很多, 但諾媽都是心甘情願的, 因為諾諾需要諾媽陪伴的時間可能只是十年廿年, 母子的親近程度亦大可能會隨諾諾的成長而遞減. 待諾諾長大了就開始獨立, 結識女朋友, 組織自己的家庭, 不再倚賴諾媽, 那時可能輪到諾媽老是煩著諾諾要他陪伴, 所以諾媽會很珍惜現在這段陪伴諾諾成長的一分一秒.
希望諾爸也會像諾媽一樣, 犧牲多一點私人時間, 少打機上網, 花多點心機陪諾諾, 一家人快快樂樂渡過每一天, 留一個美好回憶!
Three Peaceful Hearts 2009-10-27 15:26
Deeply understand your feeling and your thought. I'm having the same life as yours since my elder son was born 3 years ago and the younger one a year ago.... However, i'm not as good as you. I sometimes really want to "escape" from this kind of life. No freedom at all but as you said, full of enjoyment (though sometimes, it's pain). YES YES, men are all the same. We, the mothers, spend 100% of our time on the children while they pay 80% (at most) attention on it and the leaving 20% for his own. HAAA....
Sharon
A. Malone's friend... :-)