<與人際創傷共舞>

Today afternoon I go to Tsim Sha Tsui for have a good talk which hold by 信義宗神學院 with a friend. The subject is <與人際創傷共舞>. At 3:00pm we have a worship time. The chairman lead us to sing a song which is <同路人>. This song is remind us that we have some b/s walk with us in our life.

First, it have a sharing from Pastor Chu Wood Ping. He said that we have a conflict because we are lack of communication with each other. We need to have a clearly guideline and deference with each other for avoid conflict.

Next, he talk about how to reduce conflict : 1) less criticize, more encourage; 2) have a heart for willing to admire; 3) know that we have a place for learning on people. 4) have a thankful heart; 5) need to have confidence for ourselves.

Next, he talk about how to face conflict : 1) know that environment can't change, but our mind can change; 2) need to see the matter objectivity; 3) open ourselves to overcome the conflict; 4) willing to let our feeling talk to people; 5) don't curse, only blessing.

About 4:15pm, we have a tea break for 15 minutes. After tea break, it have a reply sharing from Dr. Chan Kam Kuen. He said that when we can't to speak our feeling, we can write down because it also can heal our pain. And then he also list some point that which people who is easy to hurt from people : 1) people who have social worries; 2) people who lack of confidence; 3) people who lack of express power; 4) people who have a depend character. I feel that I am a easy-hurt girl because I have 3 points which he said. So I feel that need to learn that express my feeling.

At 5:30pm, after pastor have a prayer and blessing, we ready to leave and go home.