Wedding plan

I Spent the whole evening writing down the schedule and the duty list for the wedding... I found it as the biggest project in my life now... so many details, so many complex logistics... Will the orchestra be too exaggerated...some friends remind me that the wedding should not be a CONCERT.   I nearly worked for it at every night and think of it at every single moment... pimples start to grow from my face again... have to stop them asap.

Maybe I shall tricate the size of the Orchestra in order to make it simpler and easier for management... but I am ... struggling... How would it sound like if the Timpani is cut from Give Thanks?  or the Harp is cut from the Canon in D? or the Chime is cut...

But I still believe that each of these things will make the atmosphere greatly different... of course that depends on the skill of the orchestration and the players.    The problem is the church is too small!! Especially the stage.