Is It Easier To Forgive a BF Or a Friend?

Spoiler alert, Smitten readers!

In the beginning of the ep, Blair sets her sights on winning Chuck’s trust back. So, in true B. fashion, she decides to go behind his back to help him secure a liquor license for his new club’s opening. Chuck discovers Blair’s well-intentioned deceit, and he—eventually—lets her off the hook. But, when Blair crosses Serena to help Chuck out, S. does not forgive or forget her friend’s foul play.

Meanwhile, Olivia (Dan’s new girlfriend, played by Hilary Duff) tells Dan that she never dated Patrick Robinson, an actor that she filmed a very steamy love scene in a vampire movie with. (Patrick Robinson? Vampire movie? Yep, GG has officially indulged Twilight's Robert Pattinson by referencing his angst-ridden fangs on the show.) Later, Olivia comes clean and reveals that she did in fact date P-Rob on—and off—camera. Dan grants her instant forgiveness.

This brings up a very interesting question: Is it easier to pardon a beau than it is to forgive a friend? I’m torn. I think it all depends on how close I am to the friend and/or the guy. The more intimate the tie, the more likely I am to give that person a second chance.

But, it's all too easy for a bestie to think that your loyalties lie with your boyfriend, or for your guy to think that you're on your friend's side. Argh! I get frustrated just thinking about the intricacies of managing these delicate relationships.

What do you think? Is it usually easier for you to forgive your BF or your friend? And, why is that? Have you ever been stuck in a difficult spot between the two?

"I think it all depends on how close I am to the friend and/or the guy."這個是絕對的，亦可以講出是否care這回事，如果是care的話，也許不會這麼容易的"Forgive"，而文章中的example...我絕對不願置評!!!如果是我的話，其實我是不會恨一個人太長時間的，只是比較愛面子，所以我不認為朋友或男友會有甚麼不一樣，當然也要depends on這件事情是否嚴重而定囉!!!