網誌分類:我心.我想 |
我相信朋友,都有"有效日期",而這個"有效日期"有多久,就取決於大大小小的相關元素(心比心,信實,真誠,可靠,責任,性格.語氣,態度,義氣............
無聊的我,想了又想,有趣地把他們分了以下幾類.....
"陳年佳釀"朋友--------最名貴的,無限期的朋友,越浸得久,他的香氣就越濃越醇,永不變壞
"咸甘桔 "朋友----------雖然不常多見,但會一見如故,談笑風生,有一種能醫百病的功能
"朱古力"朋友-----------常常供給你喜樂,而且種類凡多,但會有限期
"麵包"朋友------------- 顧名思義,他只會不停向你拿取麵包.當你手頭上的麵包已變壞或沒有時,他就快快的跑掉,一眼再不回望 ,這亦是"保質期最短的朋友










Cute Cute Ming 2008-08-17 13:13
Cute Cute Ming 2008-08-17 13:11
Cute Cute Ming 2008-08-17 13:06
I agree with you! I believe that everyone has expired date, but no one knows the exactly date. How to keep longer and longer, I think it depends on both. And then Everyone is changing by time to time, it due to their mature/opital and individal experiances and some of unkown factor.
Acceptable and kind are important to develop friendship. Trust with each other, less demand. Sometimes, you though she is your 朱古力"朋友, but she may though you as a 朱古力"朋友 or 麵包"朋友. Or You treat her as a 麵包"朋友 or 朱古力"朋友, but she though you as a 朱古力"朋友 or 咸甘桔 "朋友. When you know that different and expectation what not same as your think, you might feel a bit disappointed or upset, or maybe want to leave her alone.
Everyone need to have friend, even he/she is good for you or not Or treat you good or not. It is also good experiance to observe that what friend do you like to with and know youself more. Sometimes, you thought her as causal friend, maybe she/he could give you some suprise ideal to think on some decision. Or You thought as a best friend, maybe doing somethings that made you feel discomfort and unexpected bad thing. Be classified friend role can be changed by time to time, due to both work together. Lazy relationship, get lazy result. :)
Take it easy! No demand, good unexpected result :) is waiting for you!
史諾比的阿四 2008-08-17 10:43
我想做"咸桔",唔要做"咸濕",
心中有記掛, 見少D都得.
彩虹奧迪2008-08-17 20:03
原來你講野都好得.做甘桔朋友當然一定得!!
其實,我真的高興當晚仲有咁多人會出來吃飯,證明大家都仲有心!!