*LOVE*

The image about the "dreaming wife/husband", different people will have different presentation. Let us think that in another way, when a lady/gentlemen become friend, then they date, they become friendly;.....then they communicate. How come people don't go step by step!  During that moment, everything going on smoothly just like ordinary life. They enjoy their precious moment, then share their life target, also their life experience, also the hope of job, may be future life and something else. I think that's no need to plan & thinking of: how & then, .....such as a director of a movie!   After all,  may be you feel happy or sad. Owning to different people have different character & environment. The most important thing is our family have different "format of life" when we are growing up; so it may be effect this man/lady have different life experience. It will also effect his/her way of action in their life.   After that when you have married, you will understand that, the first of 3 yrs. is for getting use to your wife. Then I assume you a young man, so it's really hard to let you understand that. Just like a cup of warm water, if you haven't drink that before, how can I tell you it's not hot!! If you just thinking or planning to drink it. I don't know you will spend how long to think about that! Then use it as a normal way to go on for you life journey.  Please don't do or practice it in your personal style to treat or test someone! It's not fair for the others!!! Both of this two people will be hurt unless you look it as a game only! THEN  I RECOMMEND YOU TO STOP IT!. Life is not like that, please go back to the reality & keep on your journey of life, our God has prepare someone for you already. Just you haven't meet with him/her yet! May be she is already around somewhere you don't notice. It's only my personal suggestion, you see! The newspaper, what's the world going on?   Some incomprehensible matter happen daily & daily in the newspaper. It's impossible for human being may do like that! So people of this generation, please go back to the reality, don't hurt yourself & also hurt the other one. LOVE IS NOT LIKE THAT!

Sorry for it's just a sign of emotion! If any inconvenienc for it, just let go!

In the Bible 1 Corinthians Chapter13: 4-8

"Love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up; and its faith, hope, and patience never fail. Love is eternal." 

Thank you, all of you!