I never like to be judgemental about people and these sorts of things! But like they say, if you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were!! Move on, regret nothing. Period.
nodd nodd !! I used to be very judgemental when I was a teenager,
especially towards the "extra person" in the relationship. It's always
easy to condemn others though given the same circumstances we might
make similar mistakes too. I guess as we grow our point of view changes
and come to realize some things are by fate, and we're in no position
to judge. And as we go through heartaches and disappointments we gain
the ability to adapt to changes and accept unpleasant facts. I guess
everything happens for a reason, perhaps an opportunity to re-define
toleration limits, or perhaps, an opportunity quit torturing ourselves
by forgiving.
Takashi 2009-10-20 02:47
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-10-20 20:38
"就算要修養好自身,都不一定要一人獨行,
練練下功有人送上熱湯多好~"
其實很多一腳踏兩船也想專心一意去對情人的,
不過缺少了那份定力同堅持。
所以我說過,我不會就這樣相信別人說的話,
包括"我只會專心一意愛你"...
小愛 2009-09-29 00:57
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-10-07 21:47
歐陽 2009-09-27 15:11
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-28 20:51
3B 2009-09-24 19:28
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-28 20:49
你能夠放低沒結果的愛情真替你開心。
加油噢!要尋找屬於你自己的愛情!
祝天天也快樂
Takashi 2009-09-23 03:15
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-23 03:46
FUN 2009-09-22 22:21
我也一樣...以往很討厭所謂第三者
但現在想想...如果你愛的人覺得另一個比較適合自己就放對方走吧..
勉強對方留在自己身邊, 得不到他的愛, 自己也痛苦
不如放開所有給大家自由
只要想想一句:"只要他開心就夠了" 不捨得也得放手
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-22 23:34
熱情 冷淡 反悔
為何 怎麼 怎會
談情後你我也學會
我常常讀別人的網誌或回應都會無端端會有些歌詞浮現出來
Takashi 2009-09-22 22:00
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-22 23:30
你指的是什麼?不要踏入複雜又簡單的愛情關係?
如果你的心還會偶爾渴望,就會有力氣去愛人同被愛。
也許,討厭的東西存在是要我們領會它的美。
就算要修養好自身,都不一定要一人獨行,
練練下功有人送上熱湯多好~
∮╭♥PrincE=] 2009-09-20 13:37
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-21 23:32
哦。歡迎~
靜 2009-09-20 12:50
年紀大了, 明白到愛情中有很多的無奈, 誰願意當上第三者?
也許第三者也很痛苦...
當然, 我希望每個人都有幸福的愛情.
只要懂得放手, 祝福也是一種幸福.
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-21 23:32
只有長大了才了解愛情的無奈,不再輕易 judge 任何人。
祝福是種釋放,是種解脫,是另一種延續...
但感到幸福的祝福... 我還是不懂。
Lung 2009-09-18 22:16
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-21 23:31
♬ 韓神公 ♪ 2009-09-17 22:28
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-21 23:29
也許 (開始自由單身生活了) 2009-09-16 19:36
愛沒有對錯,
只有真與假!
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-17 19:18
我很懷疑,也不清楚.....
老冰獨室 2009-09-16 09:14
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-17 19:18
威晒 2009-09-16 08:37
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-17 19:17
無論怎樣,歌詞真係好正!
威晒 2009-09-16 08:35
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-17 19:16
要分清楚繼續是為了不甘還是為了愛有很大很大的差別。
每次聽聞有誰在報復,什麼情殺案,我也一樣慨嘆著這些 "when love turned sour" 的結局。
紅粉大導 2009-09-16 04:39
I never like to be judgemental about people and these sorts of things! But like they say, if you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were!! Move on, regret nothing. Period.
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-16 05:42
I used to be very judgemental when I was a teenager, especially towards the "extra person" in the relationship. It's always easy to condemn others though given the same circumstances we might make similar mistakes too. I guess as we grow our point of view changes and come to realize some things are by fate, and we're in no position to judge. And as we go through heartaches and disappointments we gain the ability to adapt to changes and accept unpleasant facts. I guess everything happens for a reason, perhaps an opportunity to re-define toleration limits, or perhaps, an opportunity quit torturing ourselves by forgiving.
史狄娜~~ 2009-09-16 02:30
愛與不愛,是打從心底的自然產生的感受。自然的來自然的走,走了就是走了,只是為了責任而勉強留下的軀殼,要來有什麼用?
愛不是債,沒有欠沒有負。。。
我愛人,而不要迫人愛我。人愛我,那管是長是短,我都十分感激。
我愛的人愛我,是幸福,珍惜同享受每一刻,直到緣盡的一天,懂得 let go,然後永遠記住與感謝對方曾在我的生命旅途上點過燦爛的煙火!
[ 簡特複普的女孩 ]2009-09-16 05:34
不過有些情侶既然不再相愛,又拉拉扯扯各自各發生多角關係,那只等於拉多些人入本來只屬於兩個人的圈子裡一齊痛苦,愛情根本就不該勉強的。
我也很感激曾經愛過我的人, 好的壞的踏入過我生命的我也感激~ 不過如果我享受的每一刻是相等於別人的痛,我想我會很內咎。